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		<title>New beginnings</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2010/01/15/new-beginnings/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 00:43:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sho</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After a rough and tumultuous year to end the decade, things can only escalate from here. With new lives beginning and old ones coming to their end, I have to believe that we are all for the better knowing the certainty of our temporal existence. We should all feel comfort with the knowledge that we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After a rough and tumultuous year to end the decade, things can only escalate from here. With new lives beginning and old ones coming to their end, I have to believe that we are all for the better knowing the certainty of our temporal existence. We should all feel comfort with the knowledge that we all live on in the memories of friends and family. Having a 16 month-old has really put things into perspective. Enjoying the little things has been the easy part. Finding the determination and discipline to carry onward career-wise has been an utter failure. I suppose that is what is to be expected, but the current day job has got me thinking some things have to change. </p>
<p>2010 has got me wondering about answers to many of my questions. One was answered today. We were approved for a loan modification which should make cost of living a bit closer to the &#8220;affordable&#8221; category. This makes me feel hopeful, and with a little more adult-take on things now, I want to do my best to get a lot of debt under control. I believe this decade will crescendo to that critical period of effectiveness for my generation. Here&#8217;s to our failures and successes. Let&#8217;s not fear either from here on out.</p>
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		<title>Nocturnal work week reinstated</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/10/07/nocturnal-work-week-reinstated/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 07:35:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sho</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So after a long good run at the golden morning shift, I&#8217;m switching back to nights in hopes of greener pastures which will lead me back to a more palatable schedule. I guess the change has reopened my eyes to career development path that I should be taking. Oh ambition, where art thou? The wife [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So after a long good run at the golden morning shift, I&#8217;m switching back to nights in hopes of greener pastures which will lead me back to a more palatable schedule. I guess the change has reopened my eyes to career development path that I should be taking. Oh ambition, where art thou? The wife is studying hard, I guess I should be too. And there&#8217;s the bonus of having Edison grow up seeing his parents are setting a decent example. </p>
<p>Speaking of my son, I&#8217;ve had a lot more time to bond with him on the days which Dar goes to her classes. Sometimes, I wonder how she does it. It can be difficult playing the single parent, but it boils down to sticking to his schedule. Making sure he gets his naps and food and is changed ever couple hours. I sure freaked out this week. I had him try on a winter jacket at Sams Club and told him to go over to his mom. Well, that jacket restricted his movement and by movement, I mean balance. So there were roughly about 2 steps that were followed by a face plant. Crying ensued. I picked him up and tried calming him down only to discover he had a bloody mouth. All I could say is &#8220;he&#8217;s bleeding!&#8221; I felt terrible. He had split his lower lip and probably hurt his poor little teeth. We cleaned him up and he has since recovered 100%. To make it up to him, I picked up a cool zip-up hoody that&#8217;s fleeced inside, but is thin and has a +2 balance. </p>
<p>So I&#8217;m trying to figure out how to get back onto this schedule again. The only problem is my stomach. If it weren&#8217;t so set on lunch at noon I think I could sleep right up till 4pm, which would be perfect. I did get some blackout curtains from Target which will be tested out today. It says it has some energy-saving benefits to it, but that remains to be seen. Dar recommended I wake up normally on my first workday and take naps to get through the first day. I think I wil be staying up as long as I can and crashing. Maybe I need to sound-proof a room and crank out some karaoke since I will no longer be able to do that with friends on Saturday nights for a while. I did think about hitting the gym which would help me stay up and then help me crash as my body would be recovering. I will try out these ideas to see what works best. For the record, when I first had this 6pm to 6am shift, it always burned one day off (Sundays). My co-workers say they stay up for football. That one way I guess, but I was never a fan. Oh well. I&#8217;m going to start of with cleaning tonight. See how far I can evolve this Death Star of an office. Therefore, I must bid you adieu. </p>
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		<title>Lake Mead railroad trail</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/08/04/lake-mead-railroad-trail/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 19:57:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sho</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So the family woke up as early as we could and headed out toward Boulder City. I&#8217;ve been wanting to try out a bike trail that went though some old abandoned railroad tracks that have since been converted to a multi-use trail. More history about it here. In total it was about 6 miles round [...]]]></description>
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<p>So the family woke up as early as we could and headed out toward Boulder City. I&#8217;ve been wanting to try out a bike trail that went though some old abandoned railroad tracks that have since been converted to a multi-use trail. More history about it <a href="http://www.nps.gov/lame/planyourvisit/hikerr.htm">here</a>. In total it was about 6 miles round trip.</p>
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<p>I was lugging Edison in the bicycle trailer and the incline was bearable. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve biked since Dar&#8217;s birthday. I do recommend you have knobby treads as it helped immensely. Careful on this trail as there are no rails and steep drops on the side of the mountain.</p>
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<p>I give this trail 2 thumbs up for the recreational rider for the gradual incline, the interesting tunnels and the history associated with the trail. You also get to see the Lake Mead marina. We topped it off by stopping by the Coffe Cup Cafe, chowing down on a pork chili verde omlette. Good stuff.</p>
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		<title>O HAI</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/07/21/ohai/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 05:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sho</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I&#8217;ve decided to cease and delete my auto-generated weekly twitter update posts. It feels rather redundant with a slight hint of cheating. It does keep things fresh around here, but why am I re-publishing posts from a micro-blog on my own blog? 14 days in Hawaii was truly bliss. We got to introduce my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I&#8217;ve decided to cease and delete my auto-generated weekly twitter update posts. It feels rather redundant with a slight hint of cheating. It does keep things fresh around here, but why am I re-publishing posts from a micro-blog on my own blog?<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/duckydar/3720024328/" title="IMG_3518 by ducky dar, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2608/3720024328_b8257c277f.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="IMG_3518" /></a><br />
14 days in Hawaii was truly bliss. We got to introduce my son to a lot of family and make long-overdue visits. It was a true vacation. One that makes me struggle to think back to the last one. Taking that much time off was liberating, but also an eye-opener as far as reflection goes. In short, I discovered that
<ul>
<li>hanging out with family we don&#8217;t usually get to see on the regular can be really enjoyable</li>
<li>I&#8217;d like to adopt the same Aloha spirit of generousity that received my family</li>
<li>Stand-up paddleboarding (SUP) is simply the most fun activity that I&#8217;ve done in a long time (plus it&#8217;s a great workout!)</li>
<li>Living in a desert, I envy those who have access to the ocean as its benefits are far and wide</li>
<li>I miss listening to the island music in my car as it must be the cure to road rage</li>
</ul>
<p>I found that after getting over the humidity, I really enjoyed being outdoors with the trade winds in my face. Something that I rarely feel like here in triple-digit hotness. We really explored Oahu for the first time, hitting many touristy spots and cruising around the island. Good times, indeed.</p>
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		<title>To Hawaii as a family</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/06/14/to-hawaii-as-a-family/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 15:25:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sho</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Of recent, my paternal grandpa&#8217;s health has not been doing so well. There has been much deliberation over the last 2 weeks as to his status and when the right time was to go and visit. As a last heroic effort, he was transferred to the ICU about 1.5 weeks ago now to have doctors [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Of recent, my paternal grandpa&#8217;s health has not been doing so well. There has been much deliberation over the last 2 weeks as to his status and when the right time was to go and visit. As a last heroic effort, he was transferred to the ICU about 1.5 weeks ago now to have doctors do what they could to improve his condition. Within the last 24 hours, he was transferred back to the oncology floor where he was before. </p>
<p>My wife and I made the decision to visit him June 12. That day, we were able to book last minute flights for us, baby, my parents and brother on Omni Airlines, a most punishing flight. It didn&#8217;t help that space was very cramped and I had an extra 25 lbs of carry-on in my lap the majority of the way. Oh yeah, and the lack of sleep. When we got here, we went to the hospital where my grandfather was in good spirits. He recognized everyone there in addition to my Uncle, Aunty and only cousin. He even recognized his great-grandson for the first time, as we had tried to send lots of pictures to him in the previous 9 months. Although, he can&#8217;t say much due to his shortness of breath, he whispered &#8220;nine&#8230;nine&#8221; to me, which is Edison&#8217;s birthday. </p>
<p>I have to say that my son has been a champ this whole trip. He&#8217;s got two big teeth protruding though his upper gums and is having a hard time with that. Plus, the humidity and jetlag are not helping either. But he&#8217;s been giving us all the levity to brighten up these sad days. Although I knew how important this was, it was seemingly, a difficult decision to make. Knowing that there were no babies/children allowed in the ICU, we came anyways. A special exception was made for us that allowed us to bring him in. I can&#8217;t tell you how very lucky a break that was. </p>
<p>He&#8217;s up now and I have to go feed him. We are here in Aiea. As a family. And I couldn&#8217;t be any prouder in a most difficult time.</p>
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		<title>ooma outage</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/04/14/ooma-outage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 03:49:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sho</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looking forward to calling my health benefits provider on my only day off this week (please note the hint of sarcasm), I was sorely disappointed that my Ooma phone system was down. The status tabs were blinking red on both the Hub and the Scout. I thought that my crap-connection Cox provides us had gone [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looking forward to calling my health benefits provider on my only day off this week (please note the hint of sarcasm), I was sorely disappointed that my <a href="http://www.ooma.com/">Ooma</a> phone system was down. The status tabs were blinking red on both the Hub and the Scout. I thought that my crap-connection Cox provides us had gone down again. After the fact, they posted a brief <a href="http://blog.ooma.com/2009/04/13/about-the-april-13th-service-outage/">explanation</a> of it later on their blog. It was your generic RFO with some sand-castle projections:</p>
<blockquote><p>Rest assured that we are taking this outage very seriously. Discussions have already started on how to make the service resilient to a similar event in the future. ooma currently has one data center located in west coast. We have planned to light up a second data center in the midwest or east coast this year, and this outage has served as a stark reminder for us to get moving on that. This has also served as a good opportunity for us to re-evaluate our contingency and business continuity plans.</p></blockquote>
<p>This makes me a little happy as I have not heard much press about my phone company. If they are, indeed, planning to add an additional data center then it would seem that the company is doing okay. You never know with these tech start-ups.</p>
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		<title>Watchmen hath been watched.</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/03/14/watchmen-hath-been-watched/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2009 16:29:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I purchased the graphic novel, Watchmen, last year sometime in anticipation of its film adaptation debut. I read it in about three days and finished right in time to catch the movie on Monday. Since the material was so fresh in my mind, it was amazing to view what many have said, is the closest [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-170" title="Watchmen" src="http://stutopia.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/41mz-9du5tl_ss500_.jpg" alt="Watchmen" width="500" height="500" />I purchased the graphic novel, Watchmen, last year sometime in anticipation of its film adaptation debut. I read it in about three days and finished right in time to catch the movie on Monday. Since the material was so fresh in my mind, it was amazing to view what many have said, is the closest adaptation a comic book movie has ever come to portraying the true heart of the material. It was as if the script were the book itself. Pane sequences were framed in the exact manner as some of the scenes of the movie. I listened to <a href="http://www.slashfilm.com/2009/03/12/kevin-smith-and-the-filmcast-review-watchmen-filmcast-ep-41/">/filmcast review</a> of the movie with Kevin Smith which I thought covered most of the major points. I thought that the movie did great justice to the source material. The majority of cast choices were spot-on. The tone matched that of the book. My only quams were these:</p>
<ul>
<li>score/music choice for the owl ship rescue and then over-the-top sex scene</li>
<li>time that was spent on character backgrounds/histories (it needed more but we would have been seeing at least a 5 hour movie)</li>
<li>missing halloween/Hollis scene</li>
<li>missing hover bikes in the snow</li>
<li>casting of Adrian Veidt as he didn&#8217;t match the build of his character </li>
<li>change of young Rorschach fight with 2 bullies (no cigarette in the eye)</li>
<li>missing parallel storyline of the Black Freighter as I enjoyed this so much in the book</li>
</ul>
<p>Apart from these things, the movie still stands as one of the truest reflections of an author and an artist&#8217;s original work. I thoroughly enjoyed it. If you have seen the movie and not read the book, I implore you to read up on the select few details that were compromised or otherwise missed in the movie.</p>
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		<title>Mommy&#8217;s first 5K</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/03/02/mommys-first-5k/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 15:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Darlene just participated in her first 5K run on Saturday, the Second Annual Read and Run for Your Health for the Henderson Library. She finished the 3 miles within 37 minutes which is pretty amazing for a new mom! It started out fairly early so her littlest supporter stayed home as morning&#8217;s here are still [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darlene just participated in her first 5K run on Saturday, the Second Annual Read and Run for Your Health for the Henderson Library. She finished the 3 miles within 37 minutes which is pretty amazing for a new mom! It started out fairly early so her littlest supporter stayed home as morning&#8217;s here are still cold. This event is one of her stepping stones towards participating in the 2009 Mud Run coming up on June 13. Good job honey!</p>
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		<title>Inlaws to Laos</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2009/01/15/inlaws-to-laos/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 02:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mother-in-law and both my brother-in-laws are currently on a plane over the Pacific headed to their second layover, Taiwan. For four weeks they&#8217;ll be gone in their own reality show, &#8220;The Thai Born Lao-American Bachelor&#8221;. My brother-in-law is going to find a wife there. I told him to look for twins and hook his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother-in-law and both my brother-in-laws are currently on a plane over the Pacific headed to their second layover, Taiwan. For four weeks they&#8217;ll be gone in their own reality show, &#8220;The Thai Born Lao-American Bachelor&#8221;. My brother-in-law is going to find a wife there. I told him to look for twins and hook his older brother up. Who knows what might happen. Exciting stuff for them though. It&#8217;s the first flight one of them. They also embarked on this journey the same day that this whole &#8220;Miracle on the Hudson&#8221; <a href="http://http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/28678669/">flight 1549</a> incident occurred. Crazy stuff.</p>
<p>In their limited english, they bid their farewells to their grandson/nephew, &#8220;I miss you&#8230;I miss you.&#8221; The new parents are about to forego 1 whole month minus one baby sitter grandma. Goodbye sweet sleep, extra gym time, happy hours, reading time, etc, etc.</p>
<p>Media-wise, they are well equipped with a digital camera and a DVD camcorder. They are capable of taking over 4000 photos. I am interested to see what they will capture. Hopefully they will get some good footage of Edison&#8217;s great-grandma as she is the one close family member that me and him will never meet in person.</p>
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		<title>2 year anniversary</title>
		<link>http://stutopia.com/2008/12/20/2-year-anniversary/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 00:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy 2-yr anniversary honey! I have to say that dinner was a nice change in pace. Love you!]]></description>
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<p>Happy 2-yr anniversary honey! I have to say that dinner was a nice change in pace. Love you!</p>
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